My Stance on Slut-Shaming
Ever since that police officer in Toronto who told college women that if they don’t want to be raped, then “they shouldn’t dress like sluts”, and then Rush Limbaugh accusing women of being “sluts” if they take birth control, the issue of slut-shaming has been active in conversations.
I’ve debated this with my fiance and I’ve come to realization that I heartily slut-shame, much more than he does, lol. I’m not talking about using words like “slut” and “whore” for the sake insulting, either.
Are you a woman who has sexual partners every night? Do you enjoy orgies or gang-bangs? Are you a stripper? An actress in porn films? I’m all right with this. That is your freedom and your right.
Are you constantly partying and getting smashed, then waking up naked and with dried cum on your face and in your hair?
Do you cry rape after you’ve woken up, naked and next to a guy, from a hard night of partying?
Are you a chronic cheater - in an exclusive relationship that is BELIEVED to be exclusive by your partner?
Do you sleep with married or otherwise taken men/women when you know about their current relationship?
Do you have children every time you go out and have sex or bring men/women home?
Are you always having unprotected sex?
Are a woman and shitting out a kid for every dozen sexual encounters?
Are a woman with two or more kids and you don’t know the father of either, but you keep having sex with random people?
Are you a woman with two or more kids that you CLAIM you know who the father(s) is/are, and it’s found out that they’re not?
Are you constantly contracting sexual diseases?
Are you using abortion as a method of birth control because you can’t afford $0.50 a condom or just don’t “like how they feel”?
THEN YOU’RE A FUCKING SLUT.
Having sex is not the problem - the lack of responsibility and lack of mutual respect is. I don’t care if you’re thirteen and have had sex with fourteen separate bed partners at different times during the day on your birthday; I don’t care if you’re married and you and your partner are into swinging.
I do care, however, if your sex life poses a health risk to other people, brings unwanted children into the world, is purposely meant to break up relationships for selfish reasons, emotionally scars and destroys the trust of your current partner, and/or abortion is the preferred method of birth control.
I know - “BUT MOUTHROT, WHY DO YOU CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE DO? IT’S NOT ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS! WHAT ABOUT MEN?”
I care because these idiots make it a point for me to know about their irresponsible actions by either boasting about it (like those idiots who tell anyone who will listen every time they’ve had a single drop of liquor), defending themselves against posts like mine, or when they go on national television (Lol, Maury Show).
Men are just as fucking bad when it comes to this, especially the ones who have fifteen children floating around, all from different women, because they can’t wrap it. In fact, I think they’re worse in this case - at least with women, you can’ gett pregnant if you’re already pregnant, so that’s at least a nine-month halt when it comes to childbearing. With men, the only restriction THEY have is the women who are willing to sleep with them. You can’t impregnate a woman if there’s not a woman to impregnate. In cases of rape, unless you can’t catch him, rapists can be locked up for nearly thirty years.
Laws that tell you what you can and cannot do with your life are wholly illegal and unconstitutional; however, I am perfectly within my right to judge you for the shit you do, for how you look, how you treat others, ect.
Your sex life is no different.
Just as it’s your prerogative to tell me and/or the public about your destructive sex life, making it a point for it to BE everyone’s business to know, it’s also my prerogative to deem you a nasty little whore because of it.
Don’t like it? Then keep it private like it’s supposed to be. Otherwise, don’t bitch because not everyone respects you for what you do.